This story was told to me. And now I am telling it to you.
The young man was boarding a plane. He was pierced with all manner of shiny rings, covered in a quiltwork of tattoos. His hair was long. He wore black leather. Lots of zippers. He looked like an outsider. And he went to a lot of trouble to look that way.
He stowed his bag in the overhead bin. He took his aisle seat next to an old guy who was looking out the window. Not reading a magazine. Not writing on a notepad. Not doing any work. Just looking.
The older man noticed the younger, and he smiled.
The young man smiled back, but it was an awkward facial exchange. The young man was not much of a smiler.
He’d been going through a hard time. He had just attended his mother’s funeral. He had been estranged from her for years. He’d been living in a way his mom and dad didn’t care for. A lot of issues there.
“That’s a nice leather jacket,” the smiling older
man said.
The young man said nothing at first. Was this guy being sarcastic? Nice leather jacket? Was this some kind of joke?
“Thanks,” said the young guy.
“That jacket has a lot of zippers, I’ll bet you have lots of compartments to store things.”
The young guy was still trying to figure this cat out. He just stared at the old man, trying to read his face.
“Uh, yeah,” said the kid.
“Zippers are so wonderful,” said the old guy.
“Right.”
The kid tried to retreat into his mental cocoon and disappear. He did not want to have a conversation with this guy. He put headphones on his ears and listened to his Walkman.
“That’s a neat cassette player,” the old man said.
The kid just ignored him.
“You can listen to music whenever you want,” the old…