Ah, Mobile

Mobile was pretty. The sunset was peach. The Dolly Parton Bridge at sundown will move you. That’s the bridge’s nickname. They call it that because of the dual arches which resemble bosomage.

I was in town to make a speech for some businessmen and businesswomen involved in a lucrative field, such as distribution, insurance, auto sales, the federal government, etc.

My speech went good. And by “good” I mean they didn’t throw expired vegetables at me. The vegetables were ripe this time.

Afterward, I went out for a sandwich and—God willing—a malted beverage. I went to T.P. Crockmiers, one of the oldest bars in Alabama.

I had company. She sat beside me. An elderly woman. White hair. Pink shoes. She was wearing pearls. She said she was celebrating something.

“What’re we celebrating?” I asked.

She raised a glass. “My husband’s life.”

“When did he pass?”

“Few years ago. On this day. He was a veteran.”

“Vietnam?”

“Lord, no. How young do you think I am? He was in Italy when troops landed in Normandy. Don’t get fresh with me, son.”

I looked at her. I wanted to ask how old she was, but my mother told me never to ask such a thing if I wanted to maintain an oxygen habit.

She was 95.

“I wish you’d known Mobile back then,” she said. “This town was heaven. It was so alive. So busy. Everyone was leaving their farms to move here. Seemed like everyone in the U.S. wanted to be in Mobile, to build ships.”

She’s not wrong. During the War, Mobile became the second biggest city in Alabama. People migrated from all over the Lower Forty-Eight.

They were living in tents in vacant lots. Old houses became boarding houses. One shipyard worker would awake early for his shift, and another would come behind him and sleep in his bed.

In ‘45 her husband came home after war. She had no idea he was coming.

A taxi pulled to her curb. She was vacuuming. She saw him through the window. She burst outside. They embraced on the sidewalk. He held her by her tiny waist and lifted her into the air.

“I’m never leaving you again,” he said.

And he didn’t. They had a good life. He went to school on the GI bill. Studied engineering. They had a bunch of kids. They bought a DeSoto. He took her dancing a lot. They Jitterbugged. They ate out every night.

“Mobile had good music in those days. You could go anywhere and listen to a band swing.”

But she said it was his faith that made him special.

“When my husband got cancer, he laughed. He said, ‘God hasn’t abandoned me. This ain’t nothing, sweetie. I’ve seen a lot worse things than cancer that can happen to a man.’”

He was cheerful until he died. Right up until his last breath. His last words were, “Darlin’, I hope they have booze in heaven.”

Whereupon they both laughed through tears. She held his hand as he passed. She held that hand for hours, until the mortician said to let go.

“I never dated anyone else,” she said. “Not since age 15. I never needed to. He was my hero, and always will be.”

They’re doing okay in Mobile.

2 comments

  1. stephen e acree - January 24, 2024 1:35 pm

    Wow. He must have been an amazing human being.

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  2. Linda Everett. - January 24, 2024 11:50 pm

    This one made me cry! Nothing better than a good, loving marriage! I know, I had one! Miss him every minute of every day since the Lord took him home. Sean, I was at your show in Fairhope shortly after he passed, I told you about my pain in losing him and I will never, ever forget that wonderful hug you gave me. I thanked you then, I am thanking you again. That hug was the start of my healing process. I look forward to seeing you in the Mobile area before long. Your show was great. When the Role is called up yonder, I’ll be there!

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